[Score-P] Make local with-or-without not use "yes" (#43701)

Score-P does not accept "--with-foo=yes", but only "--with-foo" or "--with-foo=some-valid-specific-choice-or-path". This keeps Spack from generating config flags that will cause Score-P to barf.

var/spack/repos/builtin/packages/scorep/package.py

@@ -153,6 +153,9 @@ def find_libpath(self, libname, root):
             return None
         return libs.directories[0]
 
+    def with_or_without(self, arg):
+        return super.with_or_without(arg).remove_suffix("=yes")
+
     def configure_args(self):
         spec = self.spec